Love University · Parents’ College · 01
Your child is dating: what should you say first?
Your child is dating: what should you say first? This topic is not about finding a perfect script. It is about slowing the moment down, protecting dignity, and choosing a response that keeps communication and safety possible.
Practice 1
Name what is happening without labeling the person. Describe observable words, actions, and impact.
Name what is happening without labeling the person. Describe observable words, actions, and impact.
Practice 2
Ask one open question, then listen long enough for the other person to finish. Clarify before advising.
Ask one open question, then listen long enough for the other person to finish. Clarify before advising.
Practice 3
Agree on one small next step. If there is coercion, violence, or immediate danger, prioritize safety and local professional support.
Agree on one small next step. If there is coercion, violence, or immediate danger, prioritize safety and local professional support.