Love & Marriage University中文Love can be learned
Love & Marriage University
A public education platform helping ordinary people understand, build, and improve close relationships
We spend years learning knowledge and skills, yet are often left to work out how to love and live with the people closest to us. How can we show interest without applying pressure, face rejection without losing self-respect, discuss boundaries, resolve conflict, and build a life together? As parents, how can we help our children learn love and respect? These are real questions about love, marriage, and family—worthy of serious study and of finding answers together.
Why This University
We learn many kinds of knowledge, yet rarely learn how to love—or how to be loved.
Many people grow up and realise: I know many things, but I do not know how to love well or how to recognise and receive another person’s love; I have been in relationships, but I do not understand intimacy; I became a parent, yet still do not know how to talk with my child about love.
From Reading to Action
Find a way forward in a course, then try it in everyday life.
Five Colleges
You can also start here
Parents CollegeLearn to talk with children about feelings, attraction, rejection, safety, and boundaries—and care for ourselves in the middle years as we face marriage, caregiving, loss, and new beginnings.
Men’s CollegePractice expressing feelings, respecting boundaries, accepting rejection, and taking responsibility in relationships.
Women’s CollegeLearn to express your needs, set boundaries, recognize controlling behavior, and make your own relationship choices.
Youth CollegeExplore attraction, identity, consent, boundaries, and how to ask for help.
Couples CollegeWork through disagreements, share responsibilities, discuss the future, and rebuild trust together.100 Courses
Let’s begin
No.001 Why Can’t Love Rely on Feelings Alone?From passionate love to companionate love: How can we tell that love is still present? And how do we recognise a relationship that has gone without a response for too long?No.002 How Can You Voice Dissatisfaction Without Starting a Fight?Turn an angry verdict into observable facts, feelings, needs, and a concrete request that can be discussed.No.003 If She Didn’t Say “No,” Does That Mean She Consented?Silence, freezing, and lack of resistance are not consent. Consent must be free, clear, specific, and reversible.No.004 How Can You Express Interest Without Crossing a Line?Say what you feel while leaving the other person free to choose. An honest invitation should never become pressure for an answer.No.005 How Can You Say No Without Humiliating Someone?Turning down a relationship is not a verdict on a person’s worth. Clear, brief, and respectful is often kinder than vague hope.No.006 How Do You Keep Your Self-Respect After Rejection?Acknowledge the loss without turning one answer into a verdict on your whole life. Self-respect returns through facts and steady action.No.007 Why Is “Being Good to You” Not the Same as Respect?Care asks what I want to do for you. Respect also asks whether you want it—and whether you are free to say no.No.008 What Is Emotional Blackmail?Not every tear, request, or disappointment is manipulation. The key question is whether emotion is repeatedly used to remove your freedom to choose.No.009 How Can You Rebuild the Facts After a Misunderstanding?Separate what you observed, what you inferred, and what affected you—then check whether you are discussing the same event.No.010 How Can You Say Clearly What You Need?A need is not an order and should not be a guessing game. Name what matters, then make a request that both people can discuss.
Co-Creation Plan
These relationship courses are for everyday life. Your questions, experiences, and feedback can help improve them.
What do you want to learn? What experience, lesson, surprise, or method can you pass on to others?